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Thoughts of a traveler

When you travel the Globe, or are what they call an Expat (means someone living abroad), you might run into some things that trouble you.

After a while of being in a different country you might either glorify the people there or condemn them.
Meaning, they are all soooo friendly or they are all sooo greedy.
Never forget that things seldom are what they seem.
Thanks to globalization most people in most countries are now like the ones you left at home.
No better, no worse.

Only because some drive big cars, doesn’t mean that all the people in that country (or the person that drives the car) are rich. Nor is everyone poor because some live in shags.
Only because someone backstabs you or tries to rip you off, doesn’t mean they will all do it - or vice versa.

What is different is the cultural background. That is something you should watch out for.
A smile isn’t always a sign of friendliness. Some take it as a signal to hit on you big time, some take friendliness as a weakness.
In other places it’s just what it usually is, a sign of being friendly.

A handshake isn’t always welcome. On the contrary, it is often frowned upon. In many places women won’t shake your hand and might even take it as an offense.

Read a bit about the places you will go to.
Stay open minded during your time there.
Don’t forget that not everything is golden nor is it all pitch dark.
Read between the lines & be sensible.
Treat people with respect and you usually get some back.

If not.
Well, then you might consider to move on to the next, hopefully friendlier place.

Take care fellow travelers and stay safe!

Catch it postcard

Feedback and Input on these thoughts are welcome, as usual :)

by NicoleB
2008-12-02. 10:50:32. 305 words, 194 views. Categories: *Life - Leben , 6 comments »Send a trackback »

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6 comments

Beautiful writing, sensible advise! I hope that everyone who is or is planning to be an expat reads this
2008-12-02 @ 11:39
Comment from: lceel [Visitor] · http://louceel.blogspot.com
Well said, Seasoned Traveler.
2008-12-02 @ 19:50
Comment from: dan [Visitor] · http://lifesbone.blogspot.com
Thanks Nicole, I am sending this advice to my son's girl friend currently in Nam....
2008-12-02 @ 20:26
Comment from: Quickroute [Visitor] Email · http://paddyinba.blogspot.com
good advice and if in doubt ask a local - the worst they can do is lie but usually they won't and you'll be glad you asked
2008-12-02 @ 23:36
Comment from: Scriber's Web [Visitor] · http://scribersweb.blogspot.com/
So well said! Don't make generalized statements!

They have all kinds of people in every country.
2008-12-03 @ 00:39
Comment from: NicoleB [Member] Email · http://nicoleb.org
Thanks everyone.

I just had to write this a s a reminder for myself.

Sometimes you get so frustrated (I guess most of you know that feeling) and then you tend to slide down in a little dark hole.

So, in case that happens, just think for a second or two and you'll be fine again :)

Good advice, Paddy! The hard part in that might sometimes be to find someone that speaks a language you and they have in common :D
2008-12-03 @ 09:01

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